tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post4686165217098150282..comments2023-10-10T20:04:54.436+10:00Comments on Impassioned Chronicles Of A Goof: CSAAM April 2011 - In the Mind of Pain and ShamePassionate Goofhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-20925153890911528862011-04-13T06:24:26.905+10:002011-04-13T06:24:26.905+10:00Thanks for sharing insights from your own training...Thanks for sharing insights from your own training and thank you for this post. :)Team CSAAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07602482616286115723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-68798776498334727282011-04-09T16:28:58.584+10:002011-04-09T16:28:58.584+10:00M4 - We are capable of doing everything and anythi...<b><br />M4 - We are capable of doing everything and anything, I believe, just need to want it enough and believe in ourselves.<br /><br />Roop - It was a heart wrenching depiction! And its impossible to imagine how someone can do it to a child, an innocent little child.<br /><br />Dr. Antony - That is true, and it is in a way expected if someone endures such a trauma as a child.<br /><br />Dipali - Very true. This is one case, where there can simply be no diplomacy, right or wrong, that is the only way to look at it.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-16215233673356300042011-04-09T16:04:50.994+10:002011-04-09T16:04:50.994+10:00one cannot be friends with the both the victim and...one cannot be friends with the both the victim and the perpetrator<br /><br />Once the parent/parents know, they have to ensure that the perpetrator never has access to the victim again. It may mean the severing of any kind of relationship. it may have huge repercussions in the family, but once the parent(s) know, they must make it clear to the perpetrator that he no longer has a place in their homes or their hearts.dipalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070862196307376073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-39409953279925665902011-04-09T01:58:27.452+10:002011-04-09T01:58:27.452+10:00I had written on this topic sometime back.
http://...I had written on this topic sometime back.<br />http://heartbeatsandruns.blogspot.com/2010/12/down-dark-alleys.html<br /><br />Apart from the legal dimension, child sexual abuse has serious psychological and emotional elements. Worldwide surveys point out that such abuse negatively impacts a child’s physical, emotional and mental well-being, leading to severe behavioral and psychiatric disorders. Suicidal tendencies and drug abuse are common long-term effects.dr.antonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16191095888228061156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-40939488531696580882011-04-08T23:56:53.765+10:002011-04-08T23:56:53.765+10:00Very well written, goofness. I esp love the last p...Very well written, goofness. I esp love the last para and when you say that you can't be friends with both the perpetrator and the victim. Amen.<br /><br />And yea, I remember that scene from Water. I remember it as the worst scene I've ever seen too. Second to none. Equally gruesome was this Mexican movie where a gangster chops toes of a child of a man who owes him money. But yes, that's off the topic. In short, CSA is gruesome and like you, not having experienced it, I fail to imagine the torture someone must have gone through who experienced. May they be strong and continue to be the survivors that they are.Roop Raihttp://roopscoop.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-21357645431613536542011-04-08T21:01:13.761+10:002011-04-08T21:01:13.761+10:00This line is the most important one: " It is ...This line is the most important one: " It is the unconditional support of loved ones, which is the strongest healing potion for the wounded soul of the child, and from there the healing will begin."<br /><br />The scars are forever. What is important is that the feelings of shame, guilt and anger at oneself, are not. It's a tough battle, but hopefully one that can and should be won.Mamma Mia! Me a Mamma?!?http://mammamiameamamma.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com