tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post5473424656502023619..comments2023-10-10T20:04:54.436+10:00Comments on Impassioned Chronicles Of A Goof: Infidelity Or Just Upsetting?Passionate Goofhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-25709518279249229552011-03-05T16:45:08.547+10:002011-03-05T16:45:08.547+10:00So is it still cheating if you imagine Amitabh and...So is it still cheating if you imagine Amitabh and Rekha doing the act while you are doing it with hubby?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-35599062744557478142010-02-25T16:14:48.124+10:002010-02-25T16:14:48.124+10:00I think as long as it remains in the head and NOT ...I think as long as it remains in the head and NOT in an obsessive compulsive way..it's alright. it's becomes unacceptable when it is acted upon and starts hampering a relationship. that's how I feel.Just call me 'A'http://colormesunshine.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-23907993591525689762010-02-25T08:07:25.488+10:002010-02-25T08:07:25.488+10:00Bones - True, it is not harmful, but then why is i...<b><br />Bones - True, it is not harmful, but then why is it not OK to fantasize about underage kids then?<br /><br />Shrutzz - I am not sure either.<br /><br />Renu - Possible, but the idea, of my partner, thinking of someone else, in intimate terms, definitely does not make me happy.<br /><br />Sraikh - You are both funny people! And yes, that dialogue, there is a Bengali saying for it, "Kutshit ki noorjehaan, andhokaare shon shomaan"(Ugly or Noorjehan, in teh dark everything is the same. ;))<br />And why not answering????<br /><br />Hitchy - Yes, it is port of everyone's life i believe, happens, but are you comfortable knowing your partner is thinking about someone else????<br /><br />MRC - That is what even I think, its not cheating.... just something that makes us a bit uncomfy. I don't think I would term it as infidelity either.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-36840489552536111472010-02-24T19:58:54.569+10:002010-02-24T19:58:54.569+10:00GM,
I think that as long as things are in the rea...GM,<br /><br />I think that as long as things are in the realm of fantasy and not adversely affecting the actual relationship between a couple , it's NOT cheating. If it was, then all romantic poets and storytellers would be committing adultery by practicing their art.<br /><br />That said, the knowledge that one's partner was fantasizing about someone like an ex or a friend would definitely cause some sparks to fly in this house!MRChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14650179854013176989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-45969902854986738092010-02-24T19:17:26.756+10:002010-02-24T19:17:26.756+10:00Fantasies are a part of life arent they ??
wheth...Fantasies are a part of life arent they ?? <br /><br />whether partners discuss or not... !! <br /><br />Generally people keep hushing it undercovers and arent very comfortable talking about it.. ! <br /><br /><br />Nancy Friday has written a lot on Sexual fantasies... during the liberation in US in the seventies.. : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nancy_Fridayhitch writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07533278513292989066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-11102139999158079462010-02-24T14:28:43.330+10:002010-02-24T14:28:43.330+10:00NK and I have a personal joke. Raat ka andere mei ...NK and I have a personal joke. Raat ka andere mei haar koyi Amitabh and Rekha(insert Kunal and Deepika) baan jate hai...<br /><br />I said this out loud once when I was attending someone's mehendi function in India. It was all women and the women were teasing the bride to be about her spouse and her suhaag raat. After I said that line, there was pin drop silence and then laughter..:)<br /><br />So not related to your blog post, and am not answering your questionsraikhhttp://asaaan.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-25078213941259951612010-02-24T14:22:35.989+10:002010-02-24T14:22:35.989+10:00In today's scenario, I dont think mental infid...In today's scenario, I dont think mental infidelity is very important.one may or may not,..I have read some counsellers saying that sometimes it is better as it brings a zing in their real life.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-60968229043282598622010-02-24T14:15:22.988+10:002010-02-24T14:15:22.988+10:00Hmmm....GM, I feel everyone goes through the stage...Hmmm....GM, I feel everyone goes through the stage in life of Fantasizing...Its a diverse subject to know, about the parter thinking of someone mentally...Is it Infedility, same question in my mind too...Shrutzzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06525632491912096080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-16295253469681473512010-02-24T10:54:04.905+10:002010-02-24T10:54:04.905+10:00Everybody fantasizes, period...I don't think t...Everybody fantasizes, period...I don't think there's anything wrong with it personally as long as it remains within limits...Fantasies bring variety into one's mundane life...Sraboneyhttp://ramblingsbybones.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com