tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post849757070115103925..comments2023-10-10T20:04:54.436+10:00Comments on Impassioned Chronicles Of A Goof: Reality BitesPassionate Goofhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-92197203909490683362010-08-06T08:29:01.551+10:002010-08-06T08:29:01.551+10:00Anon - The dual sword of guilt, and the need to ma...<b><br />Anon - The dual sword of guilt, and the need to make the child independent.... that my dear is motherhood. Whatever we choose, the other end will always come down to slice up our hearts.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-16204646326903325622010-08-06T07:33:42.625+10:002010-08-06T07:33:42.625+10:00ditto here.
only that my son is 27 months old. M...ditto here. <br /><br />only that my son is 27 months old. MY ex-colleagues and friends keep saying that it's time for him to go to day care for few hrs. Even I feel that way when he is bored and keep throwing the ball inside the kitchen begging/pleading/crying for me to come and out play with him. But there are endless chores/cooking to do for which I allot some time amidst my entertaining duty. <br />My husband takes care of him in the evening and they go out every day. when I get time for myself what do I feel. I feel exactly what you feel<br /><br />" I have a million things to do, or that I love doing, but its just that I did not feel like doing any of them '. <br />I miss him when he is not around. I am sure he will get over me if he goes to day care within first week itself. But I am going to sulk and feel miserable for sure. I too feel guilty at times for wanting my son all the time. <br /><br />There is a desi mom on the other side of the world who exactly feel about things and life like you, in so many ways. <br /><br />CSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-16505572670592355912010-08-05T13:56:13.735+10:002010-08-05T13:56:13.735+10:00Mystic Margarita - Oh my! I did not feel that way ...<b><br />Mystic Margarita - Oh my! I did not feel that way at all. Was just saying ..... that I did not feel like doing anything at all..... I knew your comment was well meant, and I understood exactly what u meant. So don't worry. :) Was just trying to explain my state of mind to you! And yes, I don't want to mope around once the BB grows up, and gets his own life either, but I don't want to go to the other extreme of selfish living either. It will be difficult to maintain the balance u know! Will mail u in detail about this.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-37875479175074654362010-08-05T13:51:18.035+10:002010-08-05T13:51:18.035+10:00Hey! I did not mean to imply that you don't ha...Hey! I did not mean to imply that you don't have stuff to do - I'm very sorry if it came across that way. Of course, I know you're super busy with your training, and you have a host of diverse interests. I was just writing what I keep telling myself all the time - that there will come a time when P won't need me and I had have something better to do than mope around, feeling useless. I've seen too many women feel that way, more so the ones who had decided to stay home with their kids. That's why I plan to get back to the workforce when P starts going to school full time.Mystic Margaritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043803636315553905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-632648106533468692010-08-05T11:30:29.213+10:002010-08-05T11:30:29.213+10:00Mystic Margarita - I have a million things to do, ...<b><br />Mystic Margarita - I have a million things to do, or that I love doing, but its just that I did not feel like doing any of them! :( And <i>Tara</i> and you are queued ahead of me. Tara needs to have a first and Popol is older than the BB isn't it??<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-32004754312501113372010-08-05T11:26:10.205+10:002010-08-05T11:26:10.205+10:00Oh! And I second what Tara said! :DOh! And I second what Tara said! :DMystic Margaritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043803636315553905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-14048617414556656562010-08-05T11:23:28.482+10:002010-08-05T11:23:28.482+10:00It's very hard for mothers to let their kids g...It's very hard for mothers to let their kids go....but that's we have to learn, little by little. At least, now, the kids still need us, but it won't be too long before they have their own friends and activities - so it's very important for moms to have some hobbies/passions to fall back on. I so get what you've been feeling....big hugs!Mystic Margaritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043803636315553905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-87796558887641715862010-08-05T09:06:32.922+10:002010-08-05T09:06:32.922+10:00Tara - Not right now..... :(<b><br />Tara - Not right now..... :(<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-80460200309904606582010-08-05T01:26:50.155+10:002010-08-05T01:26:50.155+10:00time for baby no. 2 then :)time for baby no. 2 then :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com