tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post8720147380719654459..comments2023-10-10T20:04:54.436+10:00Comments on Impassioned Chronicles Of A Goof: I Am A Bigotted Racist..... And Why Not?Passionate Goofhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-52971185837060766292009-09-14T18:28:16.327+10:002009-09-14T18:28:16.327+10:00hey, why bother so much. apply the universal rule ...hey, why bother so much. apply the universal rule and IGNORE them. i havent come across any personally so really cant comment but all i want to say is that dont bother urself for someone who absolutley has no place or value in ur life !! smile!!Iyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12066798986452744180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-45644881248315868982009-09-13T19:45:36.333+10:002009-09-13T19:45:36.333+10:00Happy Kitten - Trust me they do. i am not saying a...<b><br />Happy Kitten - Trust me they do. i am not saying all of them do, but some do, and those kinds of parents are everywhere, in Western countries the laws keep things in check that is all. But whoever does it, that does not make it acceptable, it is just disgusting.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-815682465156563112009-09-13T19:41:13.417+10:002009-09-13T19:41:13.417+10:00I agree that Indian parents also slap but I have n...I agree that Indian parents also slap but I have not seen anyone slap a baby and that too on it's face.... I think most of us start our slapping once the baby has at least started to walk and talk like a grown up:) but never on the face...Happy Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14406399936808407736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-63300246222136382152009-09-13T15:27:27.486+10:002009-09-13T15:27:27.486+10:00Happy Kitten - OMG! But then slapping is a special...<b><br />Happy Kitten - OMG! But then slapping is a specialty of Indian parents as well. I have learnt my lesson well now, and will just stay away.<br /><br />Smitha - That is exactly the kind of disbelief I had, and felt it was just the random people the first few times, but am quite sure its an issue with the community now. :( I stay away very happily now.<br /><br />Mystic Margarita - Exactly, that is no justification.<br /><br />Hitchy - That is mean, flicks is blocked in my part of the woods. :(<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-44675953017962074902009-09-11T20:59:37.448+10:002009-09-11T20:59:37.448+10:00here you go...
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/31...here you go... <br /><br />http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3183/3040949854_5fece63ffc.jpg?v=0hitch writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07533278513292989066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-37931623483231819182009-09-11T02:25:38.189+10:002009-09-11T02:25:38.189+10:00I haven't come across any of these women, but ...I haven't come across any of these women, but it seems to me that they're probably bitter about their place in society. Or maybe, they just don't know any better. Which again is no justification to be rude, specially towards children.Mystic Margaritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043803636315553905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-30440208351043329132009-09-11T00:08:35.197+10:002009-09-11T00:08:35.197+10:00This is so sad, GM! I can't imagine how somebo...This is so sad, GM! I can't imagine how somebody can be racist or cruel or rude to a child! It is something beyond my comprehension.. <br /><br />Here, that is one thing I love - everybody is so friendly when you are with a child.. They go out of their way to be helpful too... What makes it even more difficult to understand is how women can be rude to children! It's shocking to say the least.It must be their own suffocated lives that make them behave like this.. but still - to vent your frustration on a child.. I guess all you can do is steer away from such women..<br /><br />Hope you are feeling better having vented it all out..Smithahttp://wordsndreamz.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-59823939358659001552009-09-10T19:34:37.985+10:002009-09-10T19:34:37.985+10:00thought they were better in Dubai.. here in Kuwait...thought they were better in Dubai.. here in Kuwait we keep a safe distance from them while I think they are okay with kids.. but I would not bother to touch their children since one cannot predict their reaction.. but I have seen Arabic women slap babies on their face and was shocked! it is mostly the uneducated ones...guess they have been brought up the hard way and they dont know how to act normally..nd also most of them are ignorant and dont know the world beyond their scarves...Happy Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14406399936808407736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-11612267781781716092009-09-10T19:30:51.100+10:002009-09-10T19:30:51.100+10:00Hitch - Yumm! Yes for sure. that is my favourite d...<b><br />Hitch - Yumm! Yes for sure. that is my favourite drink btw.<br /><br />Sol - Possible, and that is what i thought all this while. But whatever it is, they live in a society, and not in isolation, so basic manners and decorum is a must. <br /><br />Pixie - I hope hitchy send s it over. :) I guess the crazy scarved women are the same everywhere.<br /><br />Rakesh - I thought you will totally beat me up on this post, about writing anything bad about this place. :P But those women. Ufff. I just don't want to teach BB to dislike others, and hence I stay shut. And I really do pity those women really really do.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-2083874565266663662009-09-10T16:55:03.039+10:002009-09-10T16:55:03.039+10:00I know what you're saying. My trick is that b...I know what you're saying. My trick is that before Yuvaan can go close to her child, I pull him back and ignore her child and her as well. Just as she would ignore mine :)<br /><br />Unless of course, I hear her call out my son - that is when I look at her and smile :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-26427812718784306102009-09-10T13:57:37.822+10:002009-09-10T13:57:37.822+10:00PG, Take that lemonade! It will make you feel bett...PG, Take that lemonade! It will make you feel better :)<br /><br />Hugs girl! :)<br /><br />Totally understand your POV... how can anyone be rude to a kid/baby is beyond my comprehension!!<br /><br />But, you know, even I have heard this from another friend and he was pretty much disgusted about the whole thing as well!!<br /><br />Hugs!<br /><br />(I am unable to log in with my google account, so leaving this comment as anon!)<br /><br />-PixieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-58117544918871945032009-09-10T07:59:23.701+10:002009-09-10T07:59:23.701+10:00GM, I have no experience with such women so I can&...GM, I have no experience with such women so I can't comment. May be they are just so fed up of their caged life. May be they don't know better. May be they have only seen/taught that much. <br /><br />We learn from experience, from mingling, from being a social animal. These women probably don't have the freedom so have no clue on how to react to strangers. <br /><br />I know that even in India, there are many people who don't allow others (including kids) to touch their babies. <br /><br />GM, Next time you see such a loony..IGNORE. Don't smile at all!Solilohttp://mesoliloquy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-5503877248431232822009-09-10T02:59:21.459+10:002009-09-10T02:59:21.459+10:00Making a lemonade !!
care for one ??Making a lemonade !!<br /><br />care for one ??hitch writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07533278513292989066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-69984266562465676272009-09-10T02:01:34.794+10:002009-09-10T02:01:34.794+10:00'A' - I agree racism exists everywhere. An...<b><br />'A' - I agree racism exists everywhere. And I am not sure how these women react to 'white' kids either. But I cannot believe that people can be rude to kids, its unbelievable to me. Are Indians rude to young kids too, whatever the race, if yes, I am totally ashamed of that.<br /><br />Soin - Trust me I pity those kids too, imagine the hatred they are growing up with. Poor kids, really!<br /><br />Bones - Possible, but being mean to kids? Is that even possible? I agree that Indians are big fat racists, no doubt. I have a 'firang' SIL, trust me I know. But being rude to kids, is something i just cannot deal with. I cannot survive here forever trust me.<br /><br />Sania - Trust me if someone is mean to the BB, it hurts a lot more than anyone being openly hostile to me. I maintain relations with people I don't quite like, just because they adore the BB. So yes, I am pissed. I am not going to be here for too long. Trust me. Definitely not bringing him up here.<br /><br />Mummyjaan - I know, I am so angry! I just don't want to do it in the BB's presence. Else I would do it too, trust me.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-29656811170615975682009-09-09T20:25:10.198+10:002009-09-09T20:25:10.198+10:00Wow, GM, that was something. Very, very angry pos...Wow, GM, that was something. Very, very angry post. ("I would have clubbed her head"). *gasp.mummyjaanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11439816857061091370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-34059765192723629502009-09-09T19:58:29.929+10:002009-09-09T19:58:29.929+10:00Some rant what? Am surprised by the intensity of i...Some rant what? Am surprised by the intensity of it. <br /><br />Just wondering - don't take this amiss, why would you still stay there - wouldn't it affect BB? Didn't know things were so bad in your neck of the woods.Sanianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-60721884803025501392009-09-09T19:08:44.765+10:002009-09-09T19:08:44.765+10:00Ah, the sour topic of racism...Since you say the m...Ah, the sour topic of racism...Since you say the men are better maybe the women are just bitter (and jealous) because of the lives they have to lead?<br /><br />Racism exists everywhere and Indians are probably the biggest racists...I guess one has to deal with it...Since you are a guest in their country and there to make a buck, suck up the anger and let things be...I know it can be hurtful but just remember you won't be there for ever...Sraboneyhttp://ramblingsbybones.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-52536950866057146652009-09-09T18:29:49.836+10:002009-09-09T18:29:49.836+10:00i can only pity the scarved lady's kid..maybe ...i can only pity the scarved lady's kid..maybe they are like this is our place and we own it.. you are just here to make a living..looking down..how does the age matter if they have such attitude..Soinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05708544526844237025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-5120643922586781942009-09-09T17:18:24.930+10:002009-09-09T17:18:24.930+10:00you are reallyyyy ranting :)....i can feel the dis...you are reallyyyy ranting :)....i can feel the disgust in your words. let it out...breath GM breath :)<br /><br />racism exist everywhere GM..just some places are more apparent than others. don't we in india treat white skin better than we treat our own people sometimes? But I'm sure your ranting is justified because you've seen the worst in them. Maybe they are like that because they themselves have faced bitterness and hardship and discrimination. our behavior to a large extend our governed by the environment we grow up in. I guess those women have grown up in a very oppressed and discriminating environment.Just call me 'A'http://colormesunshine.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com