tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post5359280667049827338..comments2023-10-10T20:04:54.436+10:00Comments on Impassioned Chronicles Of A Goof: Can We Hear The Sobs Of Tiny Voices?Passionate Goofhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-89767530236114288602009-12-21T09:28:39.712+10:002009-12-21T09:28:39.712+10:00"An abused child is unable to completely cut ..."An abused child is unable to completely cut ties off with the parents without either feeling guilty, or being made to feel as such by people, such is our social conditioning. A wronged child feels guilty to even say aloud, what he knows and feels is wrong."- this sums up how I feel.<br /><br />People are quick to judge when someone breaks ties with one or both the parents. It hurts more when they start blaming you and forcing you to 'kiss and make-up' after believing the stories that the parent has been telling them. The child looks really bad while the parent cunningly gets the sympathy in some cases. People still beleive that there can be 'bad children' but there can never be 'bad parents/mothers/fathers'.<br /><br />Great post.Indian in NZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11775633461738007949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-6602092879183319522009-11-25T20:33:26.343+10:002009-11-25T20:33:26.343+10:00Plan India is a child-centered development organiz...Plan India is a child-centered development organization that aims to promote Child Rights and improve the quality of life of vulnerable children. Plan India promotes violence against children through a campaign called Learn Without Fear. www.learnwithoutfear.in. <br />Recently an Online Petition has been developed which will be submitted to the Indian PM for recommendation on the subject.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03034334981798218219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-35351516300765222302009-11-04T00:19:01.472+10:002009-11-04T00:19:01.472+10:00Solilo - "Then when the kids grow up, they ar...<b><br />Solilo - "Then when the kids grow up, they are preached to respect very same parents because now they are old. Sick! " Not only do the parents expect it, the entire society judges you based on whether you do it or not.<br /><i>Thanks for the recommendation to blogadda. :)</i><br /><br />Shail - You know why we go back, because of many things like social conditioning, social pressures, and at the end of the day, the want not to do something wrong ourselves.<br /><br />Monika - Thanks Mon. It is infact the inability of parents to take care of children, when they abuse them.<br /><i>Thanks for the recommendation to blogadda. :)</i><br /><br />Deeps - Thank you so very very much Deeps. :)<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-3609640385178068532009-11-04T00:06:12.776+10:002009-11-04T00:06:12.776+10:00Congratulations on the blogadda pic,PG! The post d...Congratulations on the blogadda pic,PG! The post deserved it!Deepsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-81210474371470778162009-11-03T19:41:12.580+10:002009-11-03T19:41:12.580+10:00kudos a brilliant post goofy... i am so with u voi...kudos a brilliant post goofy... i am so with u voilence against children is the worst crime <br /><br />I strongly believe in the fact that if u ever hit a child its ur fault not his... no human being deserves to be beaten specially a child <br /><br />brilliant postMonikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02627040210376581730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-90932575175738684152009-11-02T20:49:57.921+10:002009-11-02T20:49:57.921+10:00"You have to live it, to know the pain, to un..."You have to live it, to know the pain, to understand what cannot be explained in words."<br /><br />I feel so too. <br /><br />I have wondered too why such children keep going back.<br /><br />I would request you to read my post "The Rejection"shailhttp://shailsnest.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-1450783373647628472009-11-02T08:52:39.527+10:002009-11-02T08:52:39.527+10:00GM, A pertinent post and I concur with the comment...GM, A pertinent post and I concur with the comments above mine. <br /><br />Parents are so busy shouting and picking on each other that they forget about children at home. Then the anger extends to those tiny things. <br /><br />Then when the kids grow up, they are preached to respect very same parents because now they are old. Sick! <br /><br />Irresponsible parents deserve to learn at some point in their life.Solilohttp://mesoliloquy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-90301510897100659682009-11-02T07:54:59.645+10:002009-11-02T07:54:59.645+10:00IHM - Imagine the horror of such childhoods, and t...<b><br />IHM - Imagine the horror of such childhoods, and the abuse is not even physical at times, and the psychological impact is just terrible.<br /><br />Hitchy - I completely and totally agree. its the failure of the parents, when they hit the child.<br /><br />Smitha - Touchwood! For parents like yours. And such parents are the ones responsible for the horrible people their children turn out to be.<br /><br />Reflections - Oh! Is it? give me the link na!<br /><br />Pixie - Exactly. <br /><br />Deeps - I read it Deeps, amazing lil daughter you have.<br /></b>Passionate Goofhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08696886799957975404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-73867419695346837832009-10-31T18:53:19.303+10:002009-10-31T18:53:19.303+10:00Have linked your post to mine. I had much to say a...Have linked your post to mine. I had much to say about DV,so chose to bring out a post in itself.<br /><br />Thank you for this relevant post.Deepshttp://deepsspeakingup.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-25273695716200263442009-10-31T12:07:54.652+10:002009-10-31T12:07:54.652+10:00Gosh! This was a hard hitting post which made me s...Gosh! This was a hard hitting post which made me sit up and think! <br /><br />You are very much right, of course! Violence against children is the worst crime!<br />A child cannot even protect itself nor can he/she talk about it with anyone... :\<br />Sad, but, true, in our society, the parents are never questioned when they beat up a child mercilessly...Pixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14433156131506216582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-11304674131505025242009-10-30T17:16:07.522+10:002009-10-30T17:16:07.522+10:00The worst part of domestic violence against childr...The worst part of domestic violence against children is, as you pointed out, that the society expects the children to still love their parents despite everything. Parents don't always know what's best for their children, not all of them at least. And they can be selfish too.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04279878087585603554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-68285936949521389442009-10-29T23:22:57.019+10:002009-10-29T23:22:57.019+10:00A thinking post really GM. Beating a wife can be t...A thinking post really GM. Beating a wife can be termed as physical harassment but nobody blinks an eye when a helpless child is being beaten up.<br />Psych babler had put up a post on this & posted some graphic pictures....it was heartbreaking.Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-30260759051180563872009-10-29T21:57:35.236+10:002009-10-29T21:57:35.236+10:00Hitchwriter I have also found most parents beat ch...Hitchwriter I have also found most parents beat children for studies and better scores! I think they lose their patience, they aren't really suited for teaching ... and like you said it only shows that they have lost control.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-76399080484533647802009-10-29T19:32:07.085+10:002009-10-29T19:32:07.085+10:00I agree with you completely GM! I have been lucky ...I agree with you completely GM! I have been lucky with my parents that I have had the most supportive and loving parents anybody can wish for - but I know somebody who has had a horrible experience with parents. You are right - it happens in all strata of society - irrespective of class or any such dividers. <br /><br />Parents think that they 'own' the child and are justified in doing anything to the child - I cannot understand how anybody can justify abuse of a child by parents. If this is not the worst sort of bullying - then I don't know what is! There are some really touching and disturbing campaigns that NSPCC does here. I am nt able to link them here - but it just shows how cruel parents can be to children! <br /><br />Very hard hatting post, GM - I do hope that some parents learn from this!Smithahttp://wordsndreamz.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-45669602641356698822009-10-29T18:53:09.617+10:002009-10-29T18:53:09.617+10:00Fortunately Even I have come across very lil domes...Fortunately Even I have come across very lil domestic violence... by husbands against their wives... !but I really feel on this topic.. against children... especially parents who lift their hands.. !! <br /><br />I have a simple belief.. if you lift ur hand at your lil kid... you lost patience... and its not his fault if you cant control ur impulses... !!! <br /><br />there is always a way... <br /><br />I know of one friend's daughter being really harrassed by her mother because of her silly competition mind.. the dad didnt study and she wants her daughter to excel in studies ... I have tried hinting a lot to her.. I always tell my friend to stop her being beaten... I dont know how I can stop her mom from beating her for studies... etc... she just wants her kid to come first in everything which is not possible...hitch writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07533278513292989066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6062566679426397319.post-69283819011466996502009-10-29T17:49:19.562+10:002009-10-29T17:49:19.562+10:00I agree, a lot of parents don't just beat and ...I agree, a lot of parents don't just beat and lock up their children themselves, but also welcome the idea of he school doing the same! And most of will not give a second look to a child being beaten - even by the roadside, I have done it and was told very arrogantly that the person with the stick in his hand was the boy's father. And that gave him the right to terrorise the child.<br /><br />Indians also love to say that kids in the West are indisciplined (are they?) because parents can't beat them, if they as much lay a finger on the child, the child would call 911. We are so convinced and closed minded about discipline and parenting!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com