Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Did I Get Lucky?

I wonder sometimes, in relation to the DH. Just today morning, I saw the CBS morning show, and there was a talk about this blog, a woman writes about how her husband annoys her, and gets loads of comments from other women, with similar issues. One has to be really annoyed to start a blog, just about the husband's annoying habits isn't it? But then I think most of these are boy-girl, male-female issues most of us have. Our minds work differently remember? Tara shared this amazing video with me, and as I saw it, all I could think was.....spot on! Go ahead, have a look.


Most women are tiered of the man-ways of the men they live with. I have been very lucky on most of those counts. The DH is not the man who leaves wet towels lying around, or shoes and socks all over the house. I don't have to be a mother to him, when he is sick or tiered. He can serve his food for himself, cook too, when needed, I am not expected to wave him off to work each morning, it is quite alright if I don't cook for a whole week or even a month for that matter, toilet seats have never been an issue.... and I can simply go on and on here. So when I read about all the man- woman issues most women are dealing with, I cannot help but count my lucky stars. Though they make for cute narrations, I guess they can be quite a nagging pain, when needed to be dealt with on a day to day basis.

The DH though, is a no-brainer man when it comes me being depressed or just feeling low, he has to come up with stupid ideas on what can be done to make me feel better, or do a root cause analysis, which absolutely drives me up the wall, but I have to forgive him for being a male at some points atleast, right? But over all, he is a great guy, and quite a joy to live with too, believes himself to be a family man, and does his bit for the family and home. And I think that makes him more of a man than those who shirk away. And yes,I do think I got lucky, because this guy..................(huge theatrical pause).................... he even cleans up after he cooks. So what do you say to that?

13 comments:

D said...

I say, thank God for him! Just like I do for The Guy :)

Suchismita said...

I say.. good for you. Just enjoy the joys of having a life partner in the true sense of the word.!!

Sraboney said...

My husband is like DH - he doesn't expect me to wake up in the morning when he leaves for work etc. ...I don't know why the toilet seat issue is such a big thing with women...
If I'm feeling low, I have to tell him and then he'll just look at me for half a second and go back to watching TV or whatever else he's doing...What a pain!

Hobo ........ ........ ........ said...

Banda yeh bindaas hai...

Shruti SriHarsha said...

what a nice hubby u have .....enjoy..enjoy....lucky

Solilo said...

I say...you lucky gal!

Passionate Goof said...


Thanks girls. :)

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said...

I say, you struck gold!

Smitha said...

You are certainly lucky :)

Passionate Goof said...


Bones - You too? he he he.

M4 n Smitha - Thanks. :)

thethoughtfultrain said...

Waaaaaaaaaaow, amazing!! Had to borrow your son's phrase! :) Yeah my husband is fuss free too thank my stars! Aren't we lucky!! ;-)

thethoughtfultrain said...

And bang on for the mood elevating attempts by men!! :-D

Passionate Goof said...


T3 - We have to let them be at some points for just being men don't we?